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The questions below are organized by type and linked to the page on my site most likely to give you a real answer. If you find a question that is not answered to your satisfaction — or if you have a question that is not on the list — let me know and I will build a page specific to what you need. The intention is to give you a sense of how I approach things, so you can decide if working with me feels right for you.
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About your child:
Why is my child acting out?
Why does my child melt down over small things?
→ Parenting through Big Emotions — Understanding the Unique Psychology and Unique Health Behind Your Child's Reactions
Why is my child so sensitive?
Why does my child react so strongly to everything?
My child gets overwhelmed easily
People keep telling me my child is too sensitive
My child behaves differently around certain people
→ Parenting Your Sensitive Child
My child has been labelled defiant or oppositional
My child's behaviour is escalating and I don't know what to do
Nothing I try works with my child
My child is impulsive and I don't know how to help
→ Parenting Through Behavioural Issues (PDA, ODD, Conduct Disorder)
Why is my child always angry?
My child has explosive anger and I don't know how to help
→ https://www.yourlifeplan.ca/parenting-through-anger
Why is my child so frustrated all the time?
My child gets frustrated with school work
→ https://www.yourlifeplan.ca/parenting-through-frustration
I can't get my kid to go to school
My child refuses to go to school
My child was fine at school and now they're not
I don't have faith in the school system
→ Parenting Through School — Getting Your Child Ready to Integrate With the Community
→ Supporting Your Child to Go to School Without Compromising Your Relationship
→ Our 4-Year-Old Went to School Today — What It Took, and What I Learned
→ Felt Safety — what the Kirlian shows about whether your child is ready, and how to explain their needs to the school
Why does my child have crossed eyes?
My child cries at the breakfast table on daycare days
How do I know when I need to pull my child from daycare?
How can I choose a daycare that is right for my child?
Daycare says my child is too hands on
→ Parenting Through Daycare — Choosing the Right Environment for Your Child
Why does my child have no friends?
My child is being bullied
My child has chronic headaches
My child has asthma
→ What 24 Prenatal Treatments Couldn't Reach — Headaches, Friendships, and the Layer We Miss
What to do of my child is being mean?
People say my child is a bully
My child keeps getting sick
→ Felt Safety | Kirlian Photography & Esogetic Treatment Oakville | You Have A Life Plan
My child has night terrors
My child wakes up screaming and I don't know how to help
My child is terrified of the dark or of being alone at night
→ https://www.yourlifeplan.ca/parenting-through-night-terrors
→ Preventing Depression, Clearing Acne, and Improving Self-Care with Unique Health and Unique Psychology
My child won't eat
My child only eats a few specific foods
My child demands specific foods
My kid won't eat at school
Mealtimes are a battle
→ https://www.yourlifeplan.ca/parenting-picky-eaters
→ From Carrots to Classroom — Helping Kids Feel Safe in Their Body and in the World
My kids is not a good sleeper
My child takes hours to fall asleep
My child is exhausted even though I try my best to let them sleep
→ https://www.yourlifeplan.ca/parenting-through-sleep-problems
My child has been labelled a problem child
The school says my child is disruptive
My child is acting out and nobody can tell me why
→ Unique Psychology Videos — giving some perspective on why your child does what they do
My child was diagnosed with ADHD
My child can't sit still
ADHD runs in our family
→ https://www.yourlifeplan.ca/parenting-through-adhd
My child has autism
My child struggles with transitions, sensory input, or social situations
My child seems to be on the spectrum but hasn't been diagnosed
→ https://www.yourlifeplan.ca/parenting-through-autism
→ From Carrots to Classroom — Helping Kids Feel Safe in Their Body and in the World
My child has a learning disability
My child struggles at school despite trying hard
My child has been told they are behind but I know there is more to the story
My child is smart but under achieving
→ https://www.yourlifeplan.ca/parenting-learning-disabilities
Does my child need a diagnosis?
→ Are You Looking for an Individualized Education Plan — or an Individualized Healing Plan?
→ What Does Alahnnaa Campbell Mean When She Says Autism, ADHD, and Mental Health Can Get Better?
My child is hurting themselves
I am worried my child might self-harm
I think my child is suicidal
Can I stop my kid from falling into a depression?
My kid is addicted to gaming
My kid won't get up in time for school
What can I do to help my kid take better care of themself
→ Preventing Depression, Clearing Acne, and Improving Self-Care with Unique Health and Unique Psychology
About your physical health:
Why do I keep getting headaches?
Why can't I sleep?
I keep waking at the same time every night
→ Why You're Up at 3am — What the TCM Clock, Pain, Unique Psychology, and Kirlian Are Telling You
Why do I keep getting sick?
Why does this symptom keep coming back?
What does my body actually need?
→ Physical Health | What the Body Is Trying to Tell You | You Have A Life Plan
Serious illness runs in my family, is there anything I can do to avoid it
Can you help with fibromyalgia, IBS, or chronic fatigue?
→ Fibromyalgia Doesn't Have to Be a Life Sentence
Why do I have chronic pain?
My back pain won't go away
Why do I get sinus congestion?
→ Pain Is Embodied Chill — How We Cope Determines If It Escapes or Gets Worse
I have joint pain, arthritis, or my joints keep seizing up
→ What Your Joints Are Trying to Tell You
My pain keeps moving or changing location
I had a treatment and now I feel worse
→ Giving Birth to Pain — What Tracking Your Symptoms and Experiences Can Tell You
→ Cancer and Hormonal Conditions — Diet May Be Important, but Resolving Childhood Conflict Is Key
I have hip pain or sciatica
Why do I get headaches before my period?
I have fibroids or PCOS
→ Warm the Uterus, Heal the Life — Chill, Headaches, and What the Womb Carries
I have PCOS or PMOS and nothing is working
My child is on the spectrum and I also have hormonal issues
I am recovering from cancer and want to understand what caused it
→ Cancer and Hormonal Conditions — Diet May Be Important, but Resolving Childhood Conflict Is Key
What is perimenopause doing to my body?
→ Symptoms and Signs in Puberty and Perimenopause — What Your Body Is Telling You
Can I help my kid have less acne?
→ Preventing Depression, Clearing Acne, and Improving Self-Care with Unique Health and Unique Psychology
I feel disconnected from my body
I don't feel safe in my own body
→ Felt Safety | Kirlian Photography & Esogetic Treatment Oakville | You Have A Life Plan
I react badly to certain foods or treatments
My body seems more sensitive than other people's
→ Every Lesson Between Us Is Yours and Mine
I have hormonal issues, excess weight, or trouble losing weight
→ Instead of Starving Yourself — A More Loving Approach to Perimenopause, Hormones, and Weight
I am worried about cancer or have been diagnosed
I want to understand what causes cancer from a soul/spirit perspective
Why does my oncologist say I should suppress hormones or avoid sugar?
→ Just Because Not Everyone Is Ready to Hear It — What I Couldn't Say to the Man with the Fan
→ Cancer and Hormonal Conditions — Diet May Be Important, but Resolving Childhood Conflict Is Key
I have been told everything is fine but I have joint pain, poor sleep, hair loss, low mood, and digestive issues
Is there a connection between all my symptoms?
I have diabetes, gout, or excess weight
I have a chronic condition and my medication is not working or causing side effects
About your mental health:
My anxiety stops me from doing things I want to do
How can I overcome social anxiety?
Sometimes I get so anxious I have no idea what happened, how can I make this stop?
→ https://www.yourlifeplan.ca/overcoming-anxiety
Why am I depressed?
After a good day, I suddenly feel sad, why?
Why do I reach for social media?
What's missing in my life?
→ https://www.yourlifeplan.ca/overcoming-depression
I've been told I have bipolar disorder
I like it when I am manic, but I am starting to understand it may not be worth the crash
My antidepressant medication made me hyper-cycle
→ https://www.yourlifeplan.ca/overcoming-bipolar-disorder
Why do I feel so ashamed of who I am?
I've always felt like there is something wrong with me
→ https://www.yourlifeplan.ca/overcoming-shame
Why can't I let go of guilt?
I keep apologizing even when I didn't do anything wrong
I wish I could be a better mom
Why do I feel guilty when I am doing the best I can?
→ https://www.yourlifeplan.ca/overcoming-guilt
I have low self-esteem
I don't feel like I am enough
I constantly compare myself to others
→ https://www.yourlifeplan.ca/overcoming-low-self-worth
How do you overcome trauma?
Can I get out a trauma loop?
Can I stop the trauma anniversary?
Something happened to me and I can't move past it
I feel like I might have PTSD
→ https://www.yourlifeplan.ca/overcoming-trauma
I am grieving and I don't know how to move through it
I have lost someone and I want to understand why
Why do I self-sabotage?
I think I have an eating disorder
→ Why You're Up at 3am — What the TCM Clock, Pain, Unique Psychology, and Kirlian Are Telling You
I feel numb
Why do I dissociate?
I don't feel like myself
→ Mental Health | Getting Back Into Your Body | You Have A Life Plan
I was told I had ADHD, a learning disability, OCD, or some other mental health condition when I was a child, but now I wonder if it was something else
Is it ok not to fit in?
→ YOU are the Shaman! | You Have A Life Plan
→ Every Lesson Between Us Is Yours and Mine
About your relationships:
Why do I keep attracting the same kind of person?
Why does my relationship keep repeating the same patterns?
I can't get through to my partner
My co-parent and I can't agree
I'm still waiting for an apology from my parents
Why do I feel so alone even when I'm with people?
Nobody listens to me
I don't know how to set boundaries
I feel like I am repeating my parents' mistakes
My parents and I have a difficult relationship that affects how I parent
→ Relationships | Understanding the People in Your Life | You Have A Life Plan
My child and I keep clashing no matter what I try
I don't know how to connect with my child
My child prefers my partner and I don't know why
→ What We Brought to the 2026 Fun Fair — The Booklet and What the Games Were Really About
About stepping into the world:
I don't know what I'm supposed to be doing with my life
I feel like I'm living someone else's life
I know something is off but I can't name it
Why do I feel so unsatisfied even when things look fine?
People are always giving me advice, but it doesn't feel right for me
→ Unique Psychology | Human Design, Soul Contract, Gene Keys & Astrology | You Have A Life Plan
→ Business Focus | You Have A Life Plan
→ Business Strategy | You Have A Life Plan
→ Unique Health | Your Life Plan, Embodied | You Have A Life Plan
→ Felt Safety | Kirlian Photography & Esogetic Treatment Oakville | You Have A Life Plan
I keep hitting the same wall no matter what I try
Why does my business keep stalling?
I'm trying to build something but life keeps taking me away from it
→ Entrepreneurs & Young Adults | Step Into the World with Holistic Alignment | You Have A Life Plan
Why do I keep attracting difficult clients
→ Business Marketing | You Have A Life Plan
→ Felt Safety | Kirlian Photography & Esogetic Treatment Oakville | You Have A Life Plan
Why do I lose confidence right when things start to go well?
→ Business Confidence | You Have A Life Plan
I am returning to work after time away to raise kids or recover from illness
I returned to work and I keep second-guessing myself
→ Every Lesson Between Us Is Yours and Mine
I just don't feel seen
I feel pressure to have my life figured out but I don't know where to start
→ Hey Young Adults, Did You Know? | Know Yourself, Build Your Life | You Have A Life Plan
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