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What We Brought to the 2026 Fun Fair — The Booklet and What the Games Were Really About

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This article is intended to provide a more detailed explanation of what You Have A Life Plan brought to the 2026 Fun Fair. If you were there, welcome back. If you weren't, let me catch you up.


Here’s the cover to the booklet that You Have A Life Plan brought to the 2026 Fun Fair:

 

Here are the photos that were in the booklet

(with a bit more information about what each photo represents)


The stress from attending public school before readiness caused my middle child's left eye to turn inward:


Master Yan (creator of RestoreChi) was able to identify that it was her IVF conception that caused problems in how all paired organs (i.e., kidneys, lung lobes, eyes, brain hemispheres) were “fused”, or created. The consequence was a lot of energetic congestion between her eyes, so that, when under stress, her left eye would lose strength and turn in. We tried to work with the school, and explain that she said “the bell is too loud”. They tested the bell and it was at the acceptable decibel level. We sent her in with earmuffs, but then she started to say “the kids are pointing and laughing at me”. We later discovered that the child she was referring to had a flat affect on her face, so anything could be misread. The problem was that they had over 100 kindergarten kids in the same pen with the bells right overhead, and my child looked like a lost soldier on the battlefield, with no help. This (two months into JK) is when our journey to attend an alternative school together began, and eventually Master Yan healed her eyes too. Not before we tried the mainstream route of glasses and vision therapy. But, when she reintegrated into public school (in grade 2), she soon no longer wanted to wear her glasses, and this is when Master Yan made this a reality for her, see:


While our eldest also had his own story with struggling to attend public school, I decided to share some recent photos, of a bad reaction he had in his eyes, and how we were able to clear it easily using RestoreChi:


If you want to read part of our journey with getting him to return to public school, see:


Each of our kids is built differently (and my relationship with them is different too):


  


Before she was born, one might think that my relationship with my middle would be the strongest, because my difficult pregnancy with her, is what brought me many of the tools that I use in my business. However, there are many reasons why my relationship with her is the hardest. Both of my older kids have defined emotional systems (so does my husband) while mine and youngest’s are not defined. This means that we feel other people’s emotions amplified, but together, there is calm. That said, youngest and I create a connection pattern called “6 and 3, Better to be Free”, which means that we have so many interests between us that it will be hard for us to explore one thing together. While my dad will tell you our youngest is my favorite, this is not necessarily true. I think many moms feel closest to their last baby because they never had to push them away to make room for the next child, they still feel like they are a part of you. Another reason she feels closer to me is because I avoided her for so long. I went back to work right away, I didn’t know she needed me, so I ended up with her for much longer, because I had a lot of damage to undo, to help her feel safe again. This is part of why I know that parent-child health must come before parent or child can try to step into the world. I’ve seen this in my clients too.


The reason I share these Human Design charts (and the Kirlian Photos below) is because we don’t have to wait for things to be physically apparent, we don’t have to wait for kids to be so traumatized that they refuse to go to school. We can see it coming, normalize their experience, and start to provide support so they can go, when they feel ready. It is much easier for everyone involved, if we can send a child to school, only when they have the capacity to handle being at school. Though I understand, this is not a luxury that all families feel they have access to. Nevertheless, it is an option, for those that can.


After having our eldest struggle with public school from SK to grade 8 and counting, we have had to reframe how we see what is going on in him many times. In truth, it is all visible in his Human Design, and Kirlian Photo. He is here to wait for the right thing to come around, to call him out, so that he can be a natural role model and teach complex things with simplicity. For the first 30yrs he is going to make mistakes, from 30-54yrs he is going to heal, and from 54yrs onward, if he has done what he was meant to do, he will be a role model for others (and if not, life will just get hard again). Fifty-four plus years is way beyond the scope of public school. But he has been my inspiration for letting kids eat what they want to eat and read when they are ready to read. The skill of reading literally emerged for him at age 9, it was not something he could be taught, he is not coachable (because something has to feel right for him to let it in). The only way to work with him is to mine his Human Design and to look at his Kirlian Photo (or take him to see Master Yan) so we can understand how he feels. The last time we went there, he was on the verge of a depression. Saying the right words, is what allowed the school to see our situation with more compassion. After seeing Master Yan, he is finally able to sleep well, even if he oversleeps. See this article for more:



Finally, the booklet shared the path we took with our youngest, who lasted only 1hr in JK, before we decided not to send her to public school until she was ready.


In her earliest Kirlian photos, at the end of what would have been her JK year, we could see clearly why she was not ready to attend public school. Her stress was so severe that it was physically making her feel like she was going to die. This is why she wouldn’t go anywhere without me:


After a difficult month, on the heels of difficult year, she was in shock and coping by dissociating:


When I tried to pull her back into her body, her left big toe shut down (showing that the feeling that she was dissociating from, was still present in her body, and was a real risk to her physical health):


We decided to continue with me attending alternative programs with her and didn’t even bother trying to enroll her in SK.


By November (of what would have been her SK year), we saw improvement with Esogetic Treatment (to help her process her emotions), and she started looking forward to spending time with people she had previously tried to avoid. Her window of tolerance was widening:

 

Her toes still close when she is under stress or spoken to sternly at school. This gives us the words to explain why her felt safety is not present when she is treated in this way (and eventually, we will find Esogetic treatment, to help her see other options in how to respond):


But, with a supportive teacher, she can do well:


The distance between her early photos and where we are now is a true testament to what is possible. Not only in getting her to feel better, but in getting others to realize why she is capable in some circumstances and not capable in others. Making Felt Safety visible through Kirlian photography helps all of us slow down and have more compassion.


What the games were really about

I understand that the booklet (and especially this article) runs the risk of losing people too soon. When we talk about Healing Masters a lot of people tune out, because we are taught not to believe it. There’s a lot invested in doing things the mainstream way. The only people who tend to stray are the ones that the mainstream way doesn’t work for them.

The three games at the You Have A Life Plan station were not random. I didn’t choose them just to lure kids so that I could talk to their parents. Each one is a physical demonstration of what lies behind the work that I do.


Axes/darts (labeled Life Plan) and bullseye target (labelled Body)


The axes and darts game was about how hard it is to land your Life Plan into your Body and have it stay. A bullseye is not guaranteed. Many people did not feel safe enough in the first three years of life to do this. We talk about the 4th trimester as being when the mom heals from pregnancy, and there are small hints that the child is still developing too. We also talk about puberty happening in the teenage years, not realizing that there are many little puberties, that are tied to the phases in the womb, repeated at birth, in childhood, and then, if not resolved from ages 12-24yrs, the person ends up with repeating conflict in adult life. It is not the mother’s fault per se, she cannot control what happened to her, how she reacted, or the decisions she made when she didn’t know any better. We are all thrust into motherhood way before we are capable of being wise, especially since most of us are raised in a mainstream way. But, the choices we make, the experiences we had, and how we felt did impact our child. So, if we were dealing with conflict in their first 3 yrs of their life, we probably couldn’t be present as much as they needed, to feel safe, and download their plan. They became a bullseye target (Body) with no axe (Life Plan) embedded.


Knock down towers (labelled 1-10) with batons (labelled “what2aim4”), with a number to letter mapping board offering a hint:


Knowing how to use this hint requires asking me, but that is not what most people will do, and even if they do, will they bother to engage with it as intended? It is not up to me to go around telling everyone how to do life.


For those who are curious, this is a demonstration of one aspect of Esogetic Numerology. We use our full birth name to determine which life lessons (1-10) apply to us in this lifetime. For example, I have no B, K, or T (column assigned to the number 2) in my birth name, nor do I have an H, Q, or Z (column assigned to the number 8), so my lessons are 2&8 in this lifetime. People who have a letter from every column in their birth name have lesson 0, which is not as easy as it sounds. At least we know that no one is dealing with all 10 lessons, most people have 2-3. When you know what to aim for, life gets more focused, fun, challenging, and doable.


Building table(s) with 4 legs:


The table legs and top are labeled as follows and work best when you build in this order:


To understand why, see:


We take this metaphor a little further, and show that each generation is built on the one before:


If someone early on didn’t have great mental health, this makes the foundation of this tower less stable (until the impact has been addressed):


If this difficulty with mental health led the next generation to have difficulty with physical health, the tower becomes even less stable:


How much can we remove from the tower before it collapses completely?:


While mainstream builds their tower like this, which allows for more things to be missing before everything collapses:


…many neurodivergent people aren’t ok with the mainstream way of doing things. In fact, that is sometimes the definition of a learning disability or being neurodivergent. The fact that they excel at some things (vertically aligned leg of the table) and they have difficulty with others (table leg removed). This is what makes Unique Psychology, Unique Health, and Felt Safety so important.


I thought my story was complete

My youngest child was integrated into public school, and I can move forward with my business, but the journey continues. We are faced with physical, mental, relationship, parent-child, and into the world conflict to give us an opportunity to grow. We use Kirlian Photography to understand what is needed, to help the person see the option that is in front of them, to follow their life path.


Here is her most recent before and after treatment Kirlian Photo, when she was unable to enter school because she is having some difficulty understanding friendship dynamics, especially when each family has different rules and the rules at school are different from the rules at home. Treatment was to give her more resources to process what was going on, so she can see the options in front of her. The parts of her finger tips that were missing before treatment appeared after treatment, and her feet, even though they were not bad to begin with, opened up even more. After treatment, she was able to engage in a conversation (which she couldn't do before), and decide on the best next step, to try to resolve the situation that she is in:


This is what using these modalities look like in practice — when something difficult comes up, we don't move to blame or try to put the responsibility on someone else, we try to see what within us is attracting this situation, or better said, what resources are we lacking that is making this situation harder to navigate. We start there, because the point of life is to understand "why and what next".


My intention (with the games that I bring to the Fun Fair) is to let people play however they want. Because this is what life is like. People can explore and build however they want to, they can aim at whatever they want, and they can understand (or not) the significance of hitting the target and keeping the Life Plan in the Body, or they can ask for help, for more information, for understanding, or not.


You can have all this for your family too!


A Kirlian photo takes less than 5 minutes. It shows what is happening inside our bodies and why, and it points to what might help. Unique Psychology takes time to digest (as does understanding what works to improve your Kirlian Photo, your inside felt safety). I am happy to give you access to as much as you want access to, and we can decode it over time. Many clients come for a bit, then take a break, and come back when they are ready. Part of this work is understanding that you can walk away when you need to and come back when you are ready — seeing that our relationship can survive that may heal something that was missing for you when you were young. I am here to learn and accept who you really are. Every single person operating in alignment with their Life Plan serves the whole.



Research shows it takes at least 9 encounters with new information before most people are willing to explore it for themselves. If this article is encounter number 1 or 2 and you want to keep going, check out the rest of my website, keep reading what is of interests to you, and if you want to stay connected, tell me what you are interested in:

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