I’ve been listening to this podcast series on the various aspects of felt safety:
This made me realize that a Kirlian Photo is a good indication of a person’s inside felt safety. And the degree to which people (including the person in question) are aware of and adhering to their Human Design and Gene Keys is a good indication of their outside felt safety.
Between felt safety, comes from our ability to make peace with who we are, and our perception of how others may judge (or be wiling to protect and take care of) us.
It is common for me to offer someone’s Unique Psychology, and for the recipient not to know what to do with this information.
Unlike me, who is inspired to ask questions and try things out, to see what works, many are looking for concrete action steps (if this happens, do this, and it is guaranteed to work, every time). Many are caught in their own egos - believing that the other does certain things for reasons that have no basis in trust or love.
Between felt safety comes from a willingness to engage in trial and error, serve and return, rupture and repair. Many people have anxiety, because they are afraid of what might happen if they are wrong. But to build a strong relationship, we need to have the courage to ask questions and to be corrected if we are wrong.
Because Esogetic Medicine helps us see options that we couldn’t see before, Esogetic treatment may help people be more open to engage in creating between felt safety (because Esogetic Medicine addresses the person's inside felt safety). We can't give to others what we don't have for ourselves, the state of our nervous system is contagious.
I tried to prevent our youngest from falling into a lack of inside felt safety (see my previous article https://www.yourlifeplan.ca/post/let-s-catch-things-when-there-is-still-time-to-navigate-without-fear), but it didn’t work:
…I couldn’t stop her left big toe from closing. Worse, what was a risk to her brain is now also a risk to her heart (you can understand why these risks threaten her inside felt safety). The difficulty she is having processing her current emotions is resulting in aggressive behavior. I thought we had moved past this, but now I know, this is where we might regress to, from time to time.
This is not the worst her left big toe has ever been. See this photo from July 31st, 2024:
…this was after I tried to help her get into her body.
Her before photo looked like this (left big toe open, right little toe closed, hands almost completely missing):
She was coping by dissociating. When I tried to pull her into her body, her left big toe shut down. This doesn’t mean what I did was wrong, it just means that more time and support were needed.
Seeing this on paper, helps us to have more compassion for everyone. The photos from July 2024 (above) were right after our youngest spent a month with an intrusive cousin, on the tails of spending a year with an intrusive friend.
When we can see aspects of a person’s inside and outside felt safety, we don’t have to throw our hands up in the air and say there's nothing we can do. We can help the inside feel more safe with Esogetic Medicine (and compassion). And we can help the outside feel more safe but understanding our unique differences, needs, and limits (Human Design, Soul Contract, and Gene Keys). Knowing what is inside and outside, we can work on the between (Divine Healing and the Information Field can be helpful). We can also hold space and appreciate how far we have come. With more felt safety, it is easier to go back to serve and return, trial and error, rupture and repair.
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