What is Conflict Therapy?

Whatever we fail to resolve simply repeats itself — in different circumstances, with different people — until we go back and address it at the root. My teacher calls it "same plot, different cast of characters."

This isn't a metaphor. It's a description of how the body works. The unconscious mind cannot be silenced. If we fail to listen, it will take its frustration out on our physical body — through symptoms, through patterns, through the situations it draws into our life to give us another chance to see what we missed.

Conflict Therapy is Esogetic Medicine's direct approach to this. Rather than managing symptoms or talking through what happened, it works at the level where the unresolved material is actually stored — in the body's information system — and creates the conditions for it to move.

How it works

There are many direct ways to apply Conflict Therapy using Esogetic Medicine:

• Using colour light to connect different levels of the brain with varying levels of intensity

• Using colour light to address the genetic tendency to fall into conflict that leads to degeneration of the body

• Using colour light to treat the face — telling it that "in the past, maybe it didn't make sense to use your social skills to try to get out of a difficult situation, but maybe it's worth trying again now"

• Using brainwaves, crystals, or Esogetic oil to induce dreaming — a form of conflict resolution, also known as "a bowel movement of the soul"

• Using sound therapy — which converts the frequency of light into its equivalent sound frequency, making it one of the most accessible forms, easy to use at home or between sessions

The 4 CDs used to address conflict resolution in Esogetic Medicine

Each method is doing the same thing — inviting the system to complete what it started but couldn't finish. The approach chosen depends on what the person's system is ready for and what their Kirlian photo shows.

What conflict looks like in real life

It often shows up as something outside of us that we can't stop reacting to. A person who triggers us repeatedly. A situation that keeps returning in different forms. Something we read or see that lands harder than it should.

A few years ago I watched my toddler destroy another child's artwork before I could stop her, and how the mother and child reacted. Most people see a situation like this as straightforward — my daughter was wrong, the other child was an innocent victim of wrong place wrong time. Few will see that this child was actually drawing these experiences to her, because she and her mother needed help resolving something inside them that was causing these things to keep happening.

Remembering to follow the thread inward rather than staying focused on what is out there is one of the more challenging aspects of this work. Because we are human, and sometimes it feels good to be upset and to blame. But if we are willing to ask "what is this trying to show me?" rather than "why does this keep happening to me?" — that is where our power to change what we attract into our lives comes from.

Conflict Therapy is not only for crisis

People tend to seek help when things are acute. But conflict therapy is most useful as an ongoing practice — clearing the layers as they become accessible, rather than waiting for the body to force the issue through illness, breakdown, or the same painful situation arriving for the third or fourth time.

Most of us have spent our lives trying not to hurt other people's feelings, and forcing ourselves — and our kids — to do what we think we should. But health comes from living your real truth, not from compliance. The hurdles we fail to jump early in life come back later — again and again — to give us another chance. Conflict Therapy is one of the tools that helps us finally make the jump.

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→ Learn more about Kirlian Photography and Esogetic Medicine → Read about Prenatal Colour Light Therapy — where many of our deepest conflicts begin